Mall versus Mela
Mall versus Mela
Visiting crowded melas, with dirty atmosphere and kids crying all around to acquire
dancing horses with fluorescent lights, flutes & pawan chakki, and coaxing parents to eat gobhi pakoras and gol gappas
selling at seemingly unhygienic stalls, appears to be either a very old story for
those who at some point in time had experienced all these or an imaginative
story crammed by school children to write an essay on ‘Dusherra mela’. For the children in the latter category, visiting mela or a mall appears to be the same
thing – you go to a mall to eat food, do shopping and watch movies/shows,
exactly what one does when she visits a mela
(visiting mela is a hypothetical case). So what is the big excitement about the
Dusherra mela?
That’s a question that is close to the
heart of all those people living in tier II towns (or towns with high number of
tiers) or in rural areas. Every year, thousands of people eagerly wait for
those 9-10 days when at the biggest ground in their town or village, several
shops and stalls would suddenly appear completely transforming the place. The same
place which earlier was used by shepherds or villagers for feeding their
animals on the long grass grown since the last mela or where budding cricketers displayed their skills had left wickets
in the form of holes in ground & numerous piles of stone and sticks,
abruptly gets covered by red jute carpet, tents and loud speakers to entertain
people for the coming ten days. Some mela
visitors ask themselves the question that was that the same place where they
used to learn vehicle driving or jogged (walked) daily morning when the ground
appeared infinitely big.
Talking about melas, Dusherra mela carries a
special significance as it is that period of year when many towns, cities and
villages simultaneously organize melas
with Ravan and his two companions
occupying special location in the ground. People proudly mention the fact that
the Ravan structure is so big that it
is clearly visible for the roof of their house. Added advantage occasionally stated
is that during the Dusherra day, they
don’t need to visit the mela venue to
enjoy the Ravan-dahan, hence they can
avoid the rush. Timings of lunch and dinner are fixed in such a way so that
every member of household gets enough time to visit mela. List of shops selling handicrafts from far flung areas of the
country (especially hilly areas as winters are approaching) are prepared in
advance to avoid last minute hassles. Such is the excitement for those ten days
that anything and everything circle around the mela and Ravan. Brothers
and sisters argue and compete with each other to secure maximum points in the
balloon striking game and the one getting maximum hits gets ice cream cone from
the small stall standing near the mela
entrance. The sounds from different types of toys bought from the mela form the majority of sounds in the
house, even beating the whistling of pressure cooker for such period of time
till they get broken either due to excess usage or due to mutual fight between
the siblings. Sometimes these toys get way to the school to decide who has got
best piece from the mela. After the mela is over, everything turns normal, even
the venue is again back to exploitation by driving schools or cricket teams.
For tier 0 and I cities, Dusherra comes either as a day forming
part of ‘extended weekend’ or for the concerned ones, it is celebrated as a
special occasion calling for a grand dinner at the best fine dining restaurant
in the nearby mall. Mall, centrally air conditioned, systematic parking
facility, hygienic food along with the option of watching a movie at the
multiplex on the top floor, provides a fully relaxed entertainment package to
the whole family. Everyone seems happy as the working people in the family have
finally got a hard earned holiday and in case, Dusherra falls on a weekend, that happiness also goes away. Since
the coming half yearly examinations of Hindi/English have a high chance of
carrying an essay on Dusherra,
children enthusiastically question elders about this hypothetical festival
which is limited to their books and TV (in case they switch it to news
channels, but yes these days the saas-bahu soaps also carry special episode on
each festival to spread awareness about the festival). Elders generally start
their elaborate answers asking questions of the form “do you know, don’t you
know”, due to which it becomes easy for the children to lose interest and focus
on the butter scotch-dark chocolate fudge on their plate. Needless to mention, the
day when children get back to schools after the Dusherra holiday, the hottest topic of discussion is the latest
movie (Student of the Year) they have seen at respective closest malls, hence
ensuring maximum utilization of the break.
This cycle continues till the next Dusherra festival.
7 Comments:
Nice write-up Ass-Com ji. :-)
This reminds me of gora badal stadium, chittorgarh. Ramlila, fire crackers, popcorn.."nostalgia".
Thanks Mishra Sahab :)
@Mahima - yep, exactly :)
Reminds me of Dusshehra at Nagpur. There were no melas and no malls ( back then), but the overall spirit was very festive! The contrast drawn is brilliant! Gives a starting plank to think.
really good one..liked the saas bahu serial contribution in spreading festive culture..:P
Convenience supersedes culture :) - nice post. keep them coming
reminds me of the excitement I used to have, after getting the Rs.50-60 pocket money from the elders (and stealing some from younger) -- and spending most of it on robot toys and jhule! :P
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